I Know What You Did Last Summer!

I recently overheard one young mother tell the other about the summer camp activities she had enrolled her 3.5 year old daughter in. ‘Thank god for the summer camp Trisha has been attending. What do they do whole day at home but watch TV or play with a smartphone?’ The other lady, who was strolling with her infant, seemed a tad mortified. ‘But where did we go to any such camps? Isn’t carefree playing also important? Won’t a two-month break from school actually help?’

I smiled to myself as I quickly darted across the street. Both mothers had a point which echoes in the mind of most parents. It is true. Summer vacations have assumed a different purpose and identity of its own! No longer is it synonymous with a complete break from school or idle pastime. It is almost the norm nowadays to enroll the child into a summer camp.  Even before the end of an academic year, announcements of various summer school activities have parents scurrying for the best choice. While for older children it would of course do good to heed to their preferences, how do you choose a good program for a pre-schooler? Or do you even opt for one?

Ideally, summer vacations must be best used for experiences that a child wouldn’t perhaps be accustomed to. A vacation, trips to the museum, spending time with other children or relatives, having idle fun, browsing through books, traveling in public transport, doing any activity of interest or plain lazing around. However, with increasing work pressure and enhancing lifestyles parents aren’t able to spend that quality time to direct their child’s interests or help in diffusing their energy. 

Children, especially younger ones, come with very short attention spans. They move on from one activity to the other in the blink of an eye.  Unfortunately, the only thing which perhaps keeps their attention while also (over)stimulating their minds and are readily available these days are tech gadgets. The iPhone/iPad or it is the television. This is perhaps the saddest outcome of the technology obsessed generation. The only cows or goats or horses we interact with are the ones played on Farmville on FB! Everything is digital. Unfortunately, the learning in only this form of media is extremely limited and sometimes even damaging.  Numerous research studies have proved it. 

I am not totally against using digital media and it has its benefits in learning when used judiciously and in a relevant manner, but learning through hands on experience is irreplaceable. When it comes to socialising with people or getting dirty to understand how a plant grows from a seed or playing with the flour to make dough or watching water metamorphose through its three stages. It is here that well-thought, developmentally appropriate and fun programmes come into the picture. 

I also cannot stress enough that even when selecting summer camps, it is imperative to take into account not just the child’s interests but also if the program is developmentally appropriate for the child. Having fun is absolutely essential but hygiene, safety and a good, researched framework against which such activities are designed are critical. 

Of course, it cannot be denied that there is no substitute for parental attention and involvement. That must be the number one priority. Skip the camp but get ready to get down on your knees, be a child and rediscover the world with your child again, and not just this summer!